often, communicating with people at work, study, on a visit, on appointment, you ask yourself question: What to me to make and how to look to be pleasant? Desire to be pleasant to people around quite normally it is also necessary to hesitate of it never. Because public recognition, sympathy from your friends, acquaintances and relatives is the key to your self-confidence.
It is required to you
- To be pleasant to people around, you, first of all, it is necessary to love himself and people who are near you. Desire to be itself and to meet own expectations in life, according to many psychologists, can also help with achievement of goal. There are several simple recommendations which can be useful at communication with people around.
Instruction
- Get rid of modesty. They say that modesty paintsof person, but only in greyish color. In other words, it is not necessary to be excessively modest, especially when people around wait from you for initiative, courageous acts and decisions. Try not to be afraid to state and defend, for example, at work the opinion, when necessary, and in informal situation with friends, be non-standard in the behavior, avoiding the conventional templates and predictable acts.
- Today there are popular videocourses and video books with the recommendations of the correct giving of in society. And with an ulterior motive. Ability to draw attention of people around, self-representation art, presentable appearance are the key to successful interaction in society and social recognition.
- After you have learned art of self-advertisement and have got rid of excessive, and at times and inappropriate modesty, pay attention to the appearance. As proverb Clothes count for first impressions... still nobody cancelled, be careful when choosing the clothes and personal style. Try to put on so that it always met situation in which you are. For example, too elaborate or bright dress which is put on for work can instantly push away from you your colleagues. And too severe looking at party with friends will give you serious look and will frighten off them.