Usually women wish and make all efforts that men fell in love with them. But sometimes there is opposite situation: the young man is not indifferent to the woman who does not love him at all! She can treat kindly him, is sincere respect, consider as friend, but does not want and to think of more intimate feelings. The girl lets know it to the man, and "does not reach him in any way", he persistently continues courtings. Or hopes that "constant dropping will wear away a stone". How to make that the man has stopped loving it?
- If you do not feel either friendly feelings, or respect for such "lover", speak frankly. That is in straight lines and the expressions which are not allowing any double interpretation tell the man that he in vain spends time, and its persistence already borders on indecent importunity. But, certainly, such conversation should be held without excess ears! For male vanity it so will be very painful.
- If the man causes in you sympathy or you just do not want to offend the person, act "more thinly", with truly women's art. Skillfully play that, as a rule, men's and female interests, habits, hobbies are opposite. For example, such occupation as shopping which is carrying away and inspiring women! Ask the persistent gentleman to accompany you in shop, and "unburden the heart". Arrange yourself pleasure at several o'clock, considering, trying on, comparing things. In passing demand from him live participation: "To me there is this coat?", "And whether this blouse will be combined with my black trousers?", "As you consider, whether not too bright lipstick?" And be not satisfied with terse offers at all, demand detailed, detailed comment! Your gentleman will be ready to run from you, up hill and down dale soon.
- After completion of hours-long torture by visit of shop (for it, naturally!) politely thank, assure that it has very much helped you. Also promise to take in the nearest future it on shopping again.
- Remember that the vast majority of men simply do not take out "waffle". They refer to this category also ladies' gossips. Make so that your next meeting has taken place in the presence of two (better than three) girlfriends with whom you, naturally, discuss all latest news! Try to tighten conversation longer, without reacting to it sufferingly sighs and gnashing of teeth. For reliability, repeat this procedure through three – four days.
- Well, and if the unlucky lover takes out even it, honestly, such men are scarcer than hen's teeth! Think: whether not to appreciate his firmness and devotion?