Any parents want to bring up the child cheerful and happy, and they do everything possible for this purpose. And how it is possible to bring up the successful person who will be able to realize himself and the talents in adulthood?
The child has to feel that parents love him. Pledge of any successful person – a good, correct self-assessment. Parents need to show that they love it for the fact that it is, and it what it is. As often as possible you speak to the kid about it, embrace him more often and respect all his rushes and aspirations. If, for example, the child needs to go to bed, but he still plays, it is better not to shout at him, and to help it to finish, complete the house, to win against a dragon, and then to lay it. Also you should not criticize the child, it is necessary to criticize his acts.
The child always needs to grant option. It can be the banal and simple choice, for example, in what he will go for a walk. Let it and simply, but the child will see that to his opinion listen. Discuss with it movies, cartoons, books or situations and be always interested that he thinks in each situation.
The child has to be able to agree. This very useful ability if it is about education of the successful person. It is necessary to develop eloquence of the child, to teach him to introduce the ideas on volume or this occasion and in different situations.
Help the child to find that business to which he will want to devote life. All people have talents and abilities. Watch the child to see what occupation attracts the greatest interest of it, and try to develop it in this direction. You remember: what to begin development earlier with, it will be better for those. Of course, in the future it can depart from this business and be engaged in another, but the saved-up years of experience will always come to advantage.
It is also necessary to notice and develop creative skills. From the earliest age it is necessary to train the child in creativity, that is to draw with it, to write verses, to practise music or dances. It strongly is useful in the solution of problems in adulthood, the creative person will find infinite number of solutions.
The child needs to be trained in responsibility. The child has to feel responsibility that he made also that he did, but it is not necessary to abuse the child, just help it to find the way out of a situation. Also awaking it is important to show on the example that it is necessary to keep the word pledged once.
The successful person – on life the optimist. In a bad situation it is always necessary to see something good, and it is extremely important for the successful person. The child needs to explain that victories can change defeats, and it is normal. Here will also show to useful optimism on the example.
The successful person appreciates time. The child has to be constantly busy with something, simple, but always something, and gradually this quality will become an excellent habit.
Well and, of course, it is independence. Since two years the child shows independence, and it is healthy. It is necessary to give him the chance something to do independently and not to hurry to do it for him. Just a little bit suffer and look what will be done by the child.
Remember that the child is a sponge therefore he will absorb everything that to it is presented by family and life.