It is sometimes hard to talk to small children: it is necessary to find such words and a topic of conversation to interest the child, to attract and keep his attention. At the same time it is necessary to speak quietly, simply and figuratively so that the kid understood everything.
Small children are so touching that adults dream to take them on hands, to admire as they play. However when it comes to a conversation with kids, at once there are difficulties: what with them to speak about, than to interest and attract?
What it is worth speaking with children about
During the conversation with the child the parents or other adults do not need to be afraid that you something will offend the kid or he will not understand you. Only it is worth remembering a little himself at small age and to think what occupied your thoughts those far years that it was interesting to you and that frightened in a conversation with adults. It is the best of all to communicate with the child, proceeding from his ideas of the world, then you will precisely find a common language. However it is worth to remember that you are cleverer and wiser than it therefore even if it is impossible to adjust a conversation at once, it can be corrected, following several rules.
It is necessary to ask kids about what is close to them: what toys or mulfilma are pleasant them what games they know that they do in a garden or school. As soon as the adult leads the conversation on something interesting to the child, everything will tell that and will paint in paints of an event of day or an adventure of the favourite heroes. But for this purpose it is necessary to show sincere interest, to express intonation how you are frightened or admire the story by the kid. Children sensitively treat falseness therefore you will lose their trust if you are busy with something another during their story. It is also pleasant to kids when adults play with them. It is the best of all that the child himself told you about rules of the game, allowed to show as as it is necessary to do. It is necessary to join in a game completely, let all for half an hour too, but without being distracted by another matters, having actively fun together with children. Then communication will return to normal pretty fast, and the trust of the child will be boundless. Be not surprised if small children on the run compose a story that the Baba-yaga hunted for them or that they saw the fantastic princess. Children see the world very figuratively therefore even the simple weather phenomena, shadows, rustles can change at them in the true imagination. However if children begin to play, play pranks, be capricious, to behave is very noisy, to fight or litter, you have to turn into the serious adult again and strictly tell what it is possible to do to kids and that it is impossible. Unreasonably in all spheres of communication with the child to allow it to adopt leadership in communication, sometimes it is necessary to be able to declare also the position.
As it is the best of all to talk to small children
In communication consider age of the child. It is necessary to talk even to newborn children, repeating after them sounds and kind of imitating them. So the loving parents do everything and it is quite normal. However it is not necessary to lisp with the kid all the time, otherwise he will perceive such communication as norm. But also constantly to you it is not necessary to use clever words and long phrases with children - they will not be able just to concentrate and understand that is wanted by the adult. And, it concerns even children is more senior. The less child, especially simple has to be language and the more brightly there has to be your intonation, expression and the movements of lips. Besides, the conversation has to concern only those concepts about which the child already knows which rely on his experience, otherwise he will quickly lose attention. The speech of the adult has to be measured and quiet. If to speak quickly, the child will not understand also a half of a statement. It is affected also by an unemotional conversation, its attention is just disconnected at some point, the look becomes absent, and the kid is fond of contemplation of a picture outside the window or observation of other people. It is not necessary to speak loudly too, so you only accustom the child to shouts. But also small children perceive whisper hardly, so, it is necessary to talk to them by an equal voice, so they will feel big security.