When time for the child to go to kindergarten comes, parents most often face some problems. It is wrong to consider what began circulations in a garden - it is process which has to proceed without any roughnesses and without special participation of parents. During adaptation to new conditions in kindergarten the child more than ever needs the help and support of parents.
For a start it is worth making sure that the child in the necessary degree owns skills of self-service. It considerably will facilitate the child's life in kindergarten. To the contrary, the inability to do something of obligatory things very much will complicate life of the kid and can fight off it at all all desire to attend kindergarten. And even if any ability does not seem to the parent very much necessary for the child, it is worth paying attention to it if the child worries about it.
It is possible that the simple inability to cut out scissors a small square does not give to the child the chance to adjoin other children during the game or when they just also are engaged in that cutting small squares. Then parents need to support the child and, having armed with tenderness and patience, to teach the child to cut out not only small squares, but also circles and triangles.
Such approach will allow the child not just to find the general points of interaction with other children, but also in something to become the ringleader. And it is very important – though just once to feel the leader of the children's company. It is very important for formation of an adequate self-assessment of the child and ability to communicate with other children.
In general, the ability to communicate and interact in collective is one of important functions of kindergarten. Therefore before visit of a garden of the child it is possible to begin to drive on playgrounds with a large number of children if before it did not become. If the child constraining, then parents can help him to join collective, having started a game with other children. For the child the participation in such game will be much simpler, it was organized by mom or dad. A game should be chosen well familiar to the child that he knew rules of the game. If parents are not discharged of process of accustoming of the child to kindergarten, and, on the contrary, in every possible way will help it, then this process will be for the child the easiest and pleasant. And perhaps in this kindergarten the child will find to himself friends on for the rest of the life. Well, or, at least, will learn to be on friendly terms.