When in family the conversation about school comes, you should not try to convince the child that it is necessary to study well. At the same time parents do not adduce any arguments for the reinforcement a statement. And the school student simply does not consider this phrase convincing.
Useful opinion on school
Parents should tell about school from a positive side. They need to describe as there it is healthy how much new and interesting it will be possible to learn what interesting classes will be given by the teacher.
Let the parent will tell that at school the kid will learn to write, read, consider. Exactly there he will get acquainted not only with new people, but also with different types of animals, with brave heroes, etc.
Daily routine
Parents of the kid will need to carry out planning of every day. If the child lives on the mode, then he will be quiet and sure in tomorrow.
Besides, such plan of day not only will well affect nervous system of the child, but also will teach him to organize and distribute correctly the time that it was possible to execute the maximum number of affairs.
Additional education
For the child, except the main education, it is possible to find also additional. It can be circles and sections on the interests of the kid. Therefore it is important to consider his opinion. It is better to start going to such institutions from the second quarter when the child already finally accustoms to school.
In the modern world, at parents of very little free time, they work hard. Therefore some children remain in "after-school care" or "school of full day".
Such serious decision is made by all family. It is important to parents to explain to the child why they are forced to make this decision what it is connected with. Then it will be simpler to it to reconcile to inevitable, and parents will avoid offenses from the kid. Especially as the school student will think that the decisive word all the same was behind it and he made a choice.
To begin to leave the kid at school of the prolonged day it is necessary not earlier than the middle of the first quarter. By this time, the child will accustom to school and will feel a little is more adult, than was. Besides parents can take a vacation for this period or to use the help of relatives.
Attention to study
Parents should pay huge attention to study of the school student, but not only from progress, but also from events. Conversations on these subjects will bring together the school student and parents and will help to develop trusting relationship.
If the child in something upset the parents, behaved badly or still something, then mom and dad should not put off a conversation, it has to take place right after an act. It is necessary in order that the child realized all the mistakes and admitted the guilt. Besides, children of this age want to be leveled on the parents therefore their opinion is so important for school students.
Parents need to spend much time with the child
That time which the parent spends together with the child very valuably. It strengthens family relations, developing affects the school student and it is informative. There is enough 34 hours a week in order that this time was enough for the kid. Scientists proved that children who will see off so much with parents or it is more, time are more developed, they improved discipline and are with higher quality brought up.
The danger arises when parents spend eighteen and less hours with the school student. In order that it is correct to solve the conflicts, it is necessary to look objectively at a situation and to estimate behavior of each family member.
The changing opinion of the school student on the same object can be also anxious moment all the time. This instability is connected with the period of adaptation to school. It will pass over time.
Parents have to pay sufficient attention and patience to help the school student during the different periods of his life.