How to bring up the child, and what does it mean? And whether there are rules and who then establishes them and what for? These questions generations were studied by scientists, psychologists not to mention that at least once in life, but thought also parents. And the baggage of mankind, has many techniques of education of children, and much unites them, and a lot of things contradict? As it is correct to bring up the child? Whether it is possible to output universal rules which each parent could use?
Instruction
1. Any child – the most invaluable, unique creation having unlimited potential and capable to reach everything if only he wishes. To help the child to create the personality and uniqueness, he needs to allow to live in own way, only directing him. And the first that is necessary for your kid – love.
2. You praise the child. And the more often the best of all. For the slightest progress, at any presented opportunity you praise the child. The praise enhances belief of the child that he unique, strong, talented. Ourselves do not suspect as in our subconsciousness parental words, installations and even intonations deeply sit. Sometimes we catch ourselves on a thought that got used to be done as dad or mom did it. Unconsciously, automatically!
3. If the child knows and believe that he clever – that he will become such. If the child knows and believe that he courageous and he will become such. And if say to the child from the cradle that he stupid – that he involuntarily will begin to trust also in it.
4. You give happiness, freedom to the children. If parents are happy, then and their children learn to be at them happy. If parents are unfortunate, then and children will learn to be unhappy. There are no exceptions! The condition of happiness is infectious. Reject the adult gravity and look at the world with children's eyes. You play the fool and have fun without being afraid. Be not afraid to seem ridiculous. Listen to the child, try to understand him that he thinks, feels. Tell children about the childhood what were you ridiculous and amusing. Do not wave away from the children if they address you, otherwise in several years your child will not want to divide with you the thoughts and desires.
5. You speak with children as if you were a child and that you wished to hear from the parents. Remind them as you love them. Be not tired to repeat to the child "I love you!". You remember a lot of love does not happen. The more you give to love, the more receive!
6. Also you remember: all that is made, parents say, imprints in consciousness of the child forever. We want it or not, but habits, habits and even a method of salting cabbage it is transferred with genes. Children absorb in themselves literally all and good, and bad. Also be sure that they will give you it sooner or later. Children copy us, so let it will be joyful to us to look at the copies.