The toys scattered on all house, books, pencils, the crumpled clothes, search of the necessary thing... About whether it is possible to accustom dirty to an order and as to make it.
Very often adults cannot precisely define a difference between order and a disorder, but nevertheless each mom considers a duty to accustom the child to an order. Some easily try to obtain that their kid removed toys, placed books on shelves and even dusted in places available to it, and others with variable success wage war with the child, not person interested to take off dirty footwear at a door.
It is considered that girls are accurater, they pay attention to the appearance more often. It is easier for them to explain that the crumpled dress looks not so attractively as accurately hanged out in a case, and dirty footwear does not shine as well-groomed. Boys, even if they love elegant clothes, in passion of a game can easily soil, tear it, not especially worrying about it.
Besides sexual distinctions, a lot of things depend also on temperament of the kid. It is easier for attentive, quiet and peaceful child to impart skills of cleanliness, than to the temperamental rascal, but it is possible to make it. And it is necessary to begin as soon as possible.
In one and a half years the child can already collect the toys. It is still difficult for it to keep in this age long attention on the same actions, and the task of parents is not to allow to get bored to the kid. Allow the kid to bring to you toys, and you will put them in a box or on a regiment, and then it is possible to change over. Here it is important not to miss the moment when the kid is able to cope itself, otherwise you risk to face the aching school student who asks for help to remove books in a table.
The two-year-old child can quite bring after a meal to you the plate when you wash the dishes, to fold on a stool the clothes before going to bed, and is a little later to clean up scraps of paper and other garbage after classes creativity.
It is very important that all adults in family adhered to a uniform look about cleaning in the house. If you demand from the kid to put accurately things on a bedside table near a bed, then and other family members should not leave the things anywhere.
Organize space in the house so that process of cleaning was not very difficult. Explain to the child the basic principles - a box for toys, a regiment for books, a wardrobe. If you notice that to shelves and boxes do not contain all contents, then increase their volume or get rid of excess things, otherwise it will be quite difficult to keep an order.
Attention - to process. Try to make cleaning process fascinating, for example organize a parade of the soldiers who are beautifully placed on the shelf, a review of cars or send dolls to sleep, having laid them on beds and boxes. Draw the attention of the kid to how it became good and cozy after cleaning that it was associated at it with comfort and convenience. And do not appoint cleaning as punishment, for example instead of walk at all.