Often comes so that the parent can tell in a temper the child words from which to it to become offensively. And moreover, told even will do much harm to the kid. And the phrase makes harmless sense, but after all it is worth refraining from its use.
Example of that is the request to leave you alone. There is a lot of variations of this phrase. When the child often hears similar expressions, his model of relationship the parent child is a little adjusted, removing a role of the kid from the first position.
The following phrase ""You are such..."". By means of such expression you hang up various labels on the child. Most often adjectives belong to them: silly, whimsical, lazy.
Most often parents appeal to children to cease to cry. Similar words let know to the kid that the reason of his frustration and its feeling has no value. When the child cries, he needs to show your attention and care.
Never and not under what circumstances compare the child to other children, even to brothers or sisters. Such behavior can provoke jealousy and negative reaction.
When you hurry, begin to adjust also the child. And he, as ill luck would have it, does everything too measuredly. Perhaps, earlier you also did not notice this sluggishness and it did not irritate you. If the parent constantly accuses the kid that he does everything slowly, then risks to develop certain complexes in the baby. In addition, also its self-assessment will suffer.
If you decided to praise the child, then use different phrases, but not one worn out. At its frequent use the praise depreciates.
What can be in bad that you offer the child the help? Nothing if not to use it every day. Otherwise, the child will be initially adjusted on failure. He will be sure that for it everything will be made by parents.
In the aspiration to calm the kid the adults give it because of what the hysterics was arranged. Thus you let know to it that it can manipulate you.
"Quickly become silent, now calm down, rather, more alive..." You are able to afford to talk only to the child so. The kid does not take offense at such words, and it is rather on the contrary. His behavior becomes directly proportional to about what you ask it. And moreover, at teenage age, it in general will become closed and aloof.