Strong crying of the child can be caused by both the objective, and subjective reasons. Whether the kid fell, was frightened or took offense, it is important to help him to calm down.
Instruction
1. Softly embrace the kid. It is not necessary to lament or lisp, just strong you hold the child some time. Let he will feel your support, care, protection. The tactile contact will help to go quicker after a physical trauma or sincere blow. Of course, it concerns only rather small incidents, but not when health of the child under the threat.
2. Adapt under breath of the kid. Catch a rhythm and you breathe in unison with it. Then gradually begin to breathe more slowly, more deeply, more quietly. The child subconsciously will begin to calm down and too to do more sedate breaths exhalations.
3. When the kid ceases to cry, speak a situation. Just tell aloud what occurred. So it is easier for child to realize a trauma and to reconcile with it. You need to maintain neutral tone and to avoid the words of assessment or discussion, especially regarding actions of the child.
4. Analysis of a situation can be carried out later when the kid absolutely calms down. Talk that it was possible to make to avoid unpleasant situation or to lower negative consequences of incident.
5. There are some more important points in behavior of the adult. Keep quiet tone. Do not accept incident degree. Time the child fell apart, do not say that a situation foolish. So you only alienate the kid from yourself. Instead show that you understand and accept its reaction. But here too it is important not to go too far and not to begin to exaggerate.