Aggression in actions of the child is negative reaction in response to acts of surrounding people which for some reason were not pleasant to him. Reactions can be various, beginning from angry words and finishing with physical impacts.
Instruction
1. Aggression at modern children, especially preschool age, is shown at the expense of desire somebody to strike, to call or just to take away a toy. Kids with such behavior very often provoke the peers to fights, and simply bring adults out of composure. Such children are called still "obstinate" and to find to them a campaign very difficult. Aggressive children quite seldom recognize the mistakes and do not wish to conform to the rules of good behavior.
2. There are several reasons for which modern children show strong aggression: somatic diseases and violations of work of a brain; education; the nature of punishments for offenses from parents.
3. Process of education of the child has to be correct in order that the kid developed harmoniously. The correct education is, first of all, a unity of requirements from both parents and their personal example. Only a personal example parents will be able to develop behavioural skills at the child. Therefore actions and acts of adults never have to disperse from requirements which they impose on the children. If in family constantly there is an aggression on the relation to each other, the kid just will begin to perceive it as norm.
4. Manifestation of aggression at the modern child is also connected with physical punishments from parents. Such reaction can happen also in case parents pay to the child not enough attention. Trying to prove to be, the kid in order that he was noticed, will begin to show such line of conduct.
5. In order that your child ceased to show signs of aggression, it is necessary to correct his behavior, in this case it is necessary to do it to parents. The main thing that needs to be made, it to adjust the favorable atmosphere in the house. To cease to use physical punishments in relation to the child. But it is worth knowing that it is not necessary to ignore completely manifestation of anger or completely to suppress it. As it will only even more provoke aggressive reaction of the child.
6. The child it is possible to teach to cope with the aggression independently. For this purpose quietly explain how it is possible to behave in this situation. Show more often the love for the kid, more you embrace him and you say how strongly you love it. Tactile feelings at early age of children are very strongly developed and are of great importance for them.