At many on September 1 passes absolutely ideally. In the future to avoid misunderstanding, it is necessary to know about the main mistakes which are made most often by parents. So, we will pass to business.
The first mistake - clothes not on weather
Can seem supposedly yes that here difficult - beforehand to look weather on the Internet or at all to look in a window, having estimated in what to dress the child. However, not everything is so simple. Parents quite often ""go to far"". And they hate going contrary to the plans. But in certain cases it is necessary.
So, for example, you for the daughter prepared a brand new blouse with sleeves, thinking that on the street it will be cool, but here since morning looked out the sun, there is no wind, and day promises to be stuffy. In such situation it is necessary to find at once in a case other clothes, for example, a white jacket.
Otherwise to the child will be inconveniently not that on the street, but also in a class. It is not necessary to sacrifice for the sake of attractiveness children's health, at the child and the heatstroke can happen.
Also the clothes for the school student have to be the most convenient. Brand new boots, big bows and too constrained jackets - all this seldom gives joy, and the child waits for the moment when he takes off this ""ceremonial clothes"".
The second mistake - collecting by all family
If family amicable and big - it is good. But, to a huge regret, classes, school platforms and halls not such capacious that there went all family. An optimal solution to be divided.
Let, for example, the grandmother and dad accompany the child since morning, and other family members stay at home to make a tasty lunch.
Absolutely other extreme - to release the child of one. That supposedly he was there already, will not be lost.
It is absolutely wrong approach. For the child the support of parents, especially at such moment, disturbing for it, is surely necessary.
The third mistake - is too much communication with the school student's schoolmates
Often there is it that mothers and fathers show on September 1 where big activity, than their kids. They are interested in hobbies of schoolmates, smile, joke as if they sit at school desks, and their child.
The similar behavior of parents can seem to children extremely unpleasant.
It is better to ask the school student in advance whether it is possible to communicate to his schoolmates that he did not feel inconveniently.
If the child does not approve it, it should not contradict, the school is his territory where it forms the personality. It is not necessary to be involved in this process.
The fourth mistake - parents of schoolmates are old friends
Perhaps it indeed. Friends of parents grew up long ago, gave birth to the children - and here, ""the meeting place cannot be changed"". In that case for you it is only possible to be glad, we can discuss a lot of things. But, if parents of schoolmates of your son are not familiar to you, you should not toady too with them. But the politeness has to be present always.
You should not be told how you managed to spend a vacation and how many money you spent, bringing together the child in school. It is bad manners - to try in a couple of hours good companions with to become perfect strangers.
The fifth mistake - is a lot of pictures
On myself I know that on September 1 one of troubles is a great number of parents with even big set of cameras. They scurry about then, there, part forcibly crowds of some school students that as it is possible to stand closer with others.
It is clear, any parent wants to make several good pictures for memory to place them in a family photo album, but, it is not absolutely good.
Remember that on a ruler at school it is necessary to care not for photos, and about that to your child was as it is possible more comfortably.