It is important to parents to treat correctly selection of the nurse for the child - this person will influence formation of the identity of the kid.
Having decided to get the child, not all young parents understand responsibility of this step. Such impression that in the child see not a toy which already appeared at all friends and "I same want", not in general give birth only because it is so necessary. Not all know at once about that how complex and responsible work – to bring up the child, and it is required not only to carry out it, but also to try not to make mistakes.
All future of the child depends on what education parents will give it. And aged up to three years there is just a formation of the personality, and a responsible attitude to education of the child, perhaps, will help you to do without unnecessary problems in the future.
If financial opportunities of family allow young mom not to work, most often she will prefer to be engaged in the child herself to give him education according to own concepts. Other option – when the woman decided that, earning money, she will be able to make for the child more than useful. If it is impossible to leave the kid with close relatives, parents try to find the nurse who could spend that time with the child while parents work.
In spite of the fact that offers of this service a set to find the good responsible person not so easily. Even when these qualities are on the ball, parents should think also that the early age is important for formation of the identity of the kid, and the stranger in general of people will influence it. The working parents will have much less time entirely to take part in development of character of the kid. With what assiduity the selection of house personnel would not be carried out, it is necessary to proceed more from requirements and the interests of the child.
Ask yourself a question, what qualities to you it would be desirable to develop at the child? The active and restless kid will suit the person who will be able to develop in him commitment and assiduity. Too strict nurse will hold the child on one place when he wants to play, and it is not really good for its mentality. That the child did not become closed, unsociable, and in behavior there was no aggression, the nurse should be chosen understanding and attentive. On the contrary, the silent kid will suit more the strict nurse who will teach him to be more exacting to herself.
If at the teacher and the pupil the temperament and biorhythms coincide, it will be remarkable. In this option the talent of the child and his opportunity will be put on the right track, and at appropriate education the serious, clever, responsible person will grow up from the kid.