As the foundation of education of boys is laid

As the foundation of education of boys is laid

To find encyclopedic materials about education of children not easy as they do not exist at all. On this subject it is possible to find bases of psychological tests, results of researches, statistical data of behavior, but there is no accurate management or instructions. Why? The fact is that the child – a being with distinguished attitude and to operate it by means of a number of certain actions, means on a root to break its thin sincere structure what at once to affect its personal qualities, and, above all – will affect all his future life.

Let's consider, for example, future men in them absolutely still early age. The wrong behavior of parents is capable to put fear in children's mentality, to develop complexes, to impart diffidence. Here it is necessary to stop on the aforesaid as the behavior of people around lays the foundation for character of the kid, his perception of the world. Here it is possible to refer communication of parents among themselves, interaction with relatives and friends of the family and also with strangers. In this case, on the example of parents, development of the relations of children with each other and formation of their social perception is observed.

Boys, in the second turn after mom, look at men. And, not only on dad, and on all men as women, except, mother, for them does not exist. They as a sponge, absorb their manners, habits, even gait. Therefore, speaking about education, it is necessary to pay first of all attention to himself to be an example for the child. As the sonny is not capable to think still analytically, he needs to collect information. And the adults who are not deprived of such opportunity need to provide this information in available, and the main thing positive, a key.

It should be noted that severe restrictions, the constant bans and influences of this sort on boys will depress since childhood. Further the internal conflict of disagreement can develop that can result in imbalance and the wrong reaction to any it "is impossible" or "at all". It is better to provide the maximum freedom of action to pupils, without reducing a control level. It will have positive impact on confidence in the forces and a self-assessment of the kid. Besides, demonstration of the power over it or attempt to submission will result in opposite effect.  

Harmonious development of children, besides their specific features, in many respects depends on model of the environment in which they mature. It is extremely important to adult to support this Wednesday comfortable for the child. First of all, the set of the well-behaved intra family relations and due consideration to the smallest penises of family enters a concept of comfort.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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