Influence of mother on the child is so big that she can quite grow up it and one, without support of dad. The main thing is to try to bring up from the boy of the independent, not afraid of difficulties person, the good husband and the father.
Instruction
1. Basic ideas of life are put at children at early age when boys are very strongly attached to mom. As a rule, because of this attachment the little sons are more sensitive to the relations in family, sharply feel an emotional spirit of mother. To grow up from boy man which will be able to be happy itself and will manage to make happy others, try to pay to the little son more attention. Show warmth, care and emotional attachment, be present at his life, at the same time giving it certain freedom.
2. Desire to help appears at children somewhere at the age of two years. Allow the son to care for you, you praise him, emphasizing male qualities. Do not charge with all house efforts yourself, even for the little boy it is possible to find "men's" work in the house. Try unostentatiously, without pressure to accustom the son to life. Charge it small affairs, let it will have duties too: to spread out purchases in the fridge, to load things into the washing machine, to wipe dust, to water flowers, to take out garbage, etc. As seldom as possible use words: "is obliged", "has to". The praise and approval are much more valuable to boys, than persuasive instructions. You thank the son for the help, encourage independence, do not criticize when at him something turns out not as it is necessary.
3. Remember that presence of the man at the child's life after all is important. Boys are aged more senior than six years need the authority. What would good mother was a woman, owing to the nature it is difficult to it to talk to the son without emotions, "as a real man", to give the real men's advice. Encourage communication of the son with the grandfather, the uncle or other relative. Classes and a talk with the senior men are very valuable to it: the boy will adopt at them male behavior model, to seize useful skills, to acquire subtleties of relationship of floors, to learn to behave differently in different situations, to be soft, patient, indulgent to female weaknesses and so forth.