Young mothers and fathers always dream that they will become the best parents for the child, will be able to surround the child with love and care. However without full understanding between children and parents nothing will turn out. Often parents offend the kid moreover and is very strong. That not to allow it, it is necessary to know that it is most of all unpleasant to the child.
Instruction
1. First, parents offend the children banal misunderstanding, especially sharply it is felt at teenage age when the child strongly changes, faces various problems for the first time. During this period the understanding of parents is most important. The teenager needs to know for sure that close people are on his party. For example, most of children at this age for the first time seriously fall in love, these feelings are really very important for them, only parents are ready extremely categorically and can even forbid to meet darling. Of course, mom and dad act on the basis of the personal experience as they understand that the first love most often comes to an end at the same teenage age. However, it is not an occasion to take so cardinal measures, it is much more important to understand and accept feelings of the child and, best of all, to give to it useful tips which it needs, but not to sneer at the first love.
2. Secondly, it is possible to offend the child lack of support. Whom can the child address for it still? Of course, there are friends, but unless they can give the same support as from parents? Certainly, no. Peers in the course of growing can offend the child, it can have disagreements with teachers. At the same time the child always has to be sure precisely that when he comes home, close people will not begin to condemn him, and will sincerely support and will just be near. It gives to any child self-confidence which is so necessary for him.
3. Thirdly, comparisons with other children, especially not in favor of own child can wound. It restrains vanity and underestimates a self-assessment and also lets the child know that for the parents he is insufficiently good.
4. Fourthly, it is unlikely sneers in the party can please someone, and children take it even more seriously. They so should face quite often sneers from peers and if similar is done also by parents, then for the kid it can become very serious blow.