When at young parents the first child is born, parents come up against unexpected situations and problems for the first time. There is several advice which will help parents to look after the newborn.
Contact. For the child it is extremely important to feel mom nearby and know that mom did not get to anywhere. By the way, it is important for mom too.
Body to a body. For the newborn child it is extremely important to feel corporal contact with parents because newborn children obtain information maximum only through touch. As often as possible iron the child, embrace and put him on a breast.
Touch world. The child will be quietest if periodically to hold him on hands because he will listen to parental heartbeat to which he listened 9 months, being in a womb. Mom's smell and in order that the dream was the strongest and deep is also important, it is necessary to put to the child in a bed some maternal thing.
Maternal alarms. Today's young mummies obtain excessively a lot of information on courting for the child, and it is very bad because how to be told, "how many people, there are so much opinions". As a result mummies have questions: "and whether correctly I do, maybe, everything not so" or "they are mistaken, and these are right". It will be best of all to drive all negative thoughts because from them there will be no advantage. Believe, mom, without doubts and uncertainty is necessary for the child confident in the forces and herself.
Tranquility on hands, and a dream – independent. If the child burst into tears, it is necessary to calm him on hands that he caught heat and a smell. No, do not think, it not to spoil the child because it is the myth. On the contrary, as it was told above, it is excellent corporal contact.
Feeding by a breast. Feeding by a breast is extremely important point, but it is extremely important that it was in pleasure both for mom, and for the child, but did not tire anybody.
Dad and child care. Since the very first birthdays of the child it is not necessary to give him and all cares of it to grandmothers because the first days of life of the child is a great time to come into contact between it and dad. It will be best of all to allocate several duties with which dad, like bathing, swaddling or laying will cope.
Day regimen. Mame with the child will be better and easier when the daily routine appears. For the newborn it will be food, wakefulness and a dream in certain time. But this schedule will not arise in itself, it needs to be created independently.
Rest is necessary too. Many young mummies, after the child falls asleep, try to make all all houseworks, beginning from cooking and finishing with cleaning. And it is wrong because young mom needs to have a rest. Only well rested mom will be able to give to the kid as much as possible care and attention. It will be best of all to place priorities.