Many parents I think much and dream of that their son or the daughter became independent. But when it occurs and children become independent then that and is remembered old wisdom: "Small children – small problems, big children – big problems". Sometimes to become the most hard time of education of the child time when the child turns into teenage age. At this age children very sharply I react to councils of parents, even to their care and caress. It is necessary to understand difficulties of education of the teenager and his stages once and for all.
As it is difficult to communicate with the teenager
It is very often difficult to talk to the teenager and in general to find a common language because at teenage age at children the emotional spirit very strongly changes. Parents need to suffer any splashes in teenage mood to remain for the child the authority and dear person in whom he can find support.
It is impossible to adjust communication with the child by means of certain rules, but after all it is worth trying to preserve weak mentality of the teenager.
Parental care
Care of parents is very important for the teenager. Possibly, now you only people who really care for the teenager, closing eyes to all his whims. It is difficult to present what will be with the child if you do not pay him enough attention. Communicate with the child on the subjects interesting him, you praise the child for the fact that he gained next, though small, a victory.
The teenager is in caress and care of the parents in great need. It is necessary in order that he was created by the full-fledged personality without complexes and fears. Personal qualities of the teenager depend on his self-assessment and who as not you, dear parents, can lift it.
It is important to understand value of this rule for you and your child. All your actions and words have to be built so that not to injure mentality of the child.
Teenagers thinly feel the atmosphere in family and all absorb that is heard and seen. If mom cares and respects the husband, his parents, is never rude and does not swear, then it affects in the best way attitude of the teenager. Try to be that clever mom who will help her child, but will not perform for him all work which will help with a trouble, but will make so that the child will independently perform the work or will solve a problem.