Child and pocket money

Child and pocket money

Quite different opinions on pocket money occur among parents. Some treat it absolutely calmly, others is sharply negative. At what age it is possible to give to the child money?

The child is ready that you give him money when he accurately understands that money comes not from air, they need to be earned, and not always it comes easily. If your child goes to shop and always brings delivery if he asks from you money and accurately understands what they are necessary for it for what it will spend them for and understands point of this purchase, then it serves as a signal that the child is ready to receive pocket money.

You should not give to the child money earlier, than he will go to school. Better if he before school thinks of how to play with friends, but not about, where to spend money. The child can ask even more money from parents, it is impossible to give in on it at all. If you came across a hook once, the child will understand what with you can so be made once again. Therefore it is not necessary to give to the child a lot of pocket money.

If you consider that else early to give to the child money for pocket expenses, is reasoned explain him the reason. If you chose a financial way of encouragement of the child if for the five you to date to it money, or for the help in economy also encourage with ruble, then be ready that the child will get used to do everything for a certain payment. Will gain knowledge for the sake of money, to help about the house not for the sake of the help, and for the sake of money.

Giving money for pocket expenses, limit the child in time, report that it to it for 3 days. If the child spends them earlier, then in other days he should cost without cash. Thus, he will be accustomed to planning of expenses. Also prepare the child for the fact that shortly he should earn money independently. If the child wants to buy any big thing which costs much, then suggest it to save and try to save up the necessary sum. Then your kid will understand that he needs to make at first something before receiving the desirable.

Thus, children can trust pocket money, but it is important to define whether the child is ready to this step or not. Anyway, only receiving personal money the child to learn to make independently decisions, to dispose of them, to save and save.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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