The cruelty is peculiar to people, millions of years it was necessary for survival and strengthening of a look. The heritage of primitive ancestors has sometimes an effect, especially such behavior is peculiar to children. Only education and a constant example for imitation gives the chance to the child to subordinate and control the aggressive feelings and instincts.
Adults can constrain the emotions, and children of it are not able to do yet. Some manifestation of cruelty is characteristic of all children, it is a certain stage of growing. The unconscious children's cruelty passes over time. But when the teenager consciously hurts other person, it is already a reason for experiences and acceptance of educational measures. The cruelty of significant adults is the most important reason of children's cruelty. In the face of the child the elder brother kicked a cat, the father a mat cursed the opponent on the road, mom disapprovingly spoke of neighbors, parents sort out the relations with the manhandling help. The small child can repeat actions of adults. There is no problem of children's cruelty in families where the relations are based on love and mutual respect. When parents devote to communication with the kid much time, answer his questions, they set an example of the benevolent relation and the child will hardly have a desire to behave differently. The children living in dysfunctional families, shelters, boarding schools are often subject to aggressive influence of seniors. The child deprived of parental caress grows up a young of wild animal, he also does not suspect how to behave in a different way. He never saw sympathy, and therefore cannot sympathize with others. The television, the Internet are full of the negative information encouraging violence. Various "shooter games" cause indifference to sufferings of others. Under the influence of these factors of feeling become dull, force becomes standard of the solution of problems. To completely protect children from these sources of harmful information it is almost unreal, seldom who manages to control the child constantly. That it was not necessary to watch the child, is much more effective since early years to cultivate in it ability to be responsible for the actions, to soberly estimate them. Parents, school, books, cinema and also ideology of the state have to provide such education. One more reason of children's aggression — permissiveness. The blind love for the child often prevents parents to estimate his acts correctly. They in any situations get up on its party, strengthening the child in a thought of impunity. Such position leads to the fact that the teenager completely gets out of hand and becomes dangerous to parents. The cruelty can appear also owing to mental pathologies. In this case it is possible to get rid of destructive aggression only by means of the expert. The main goal of parents is to help the kid to become more human. It is worth to remember that aggressive behavior – natural and simplest reaction to the irritating factors. Therefore it is necessary not to eradicate "wild" impulses, and to try to teach to master the child them, transforming aggression to more acceptable feelings. For this purpose, first of all, it is necessary to acquire concepts about the value of human life. Surround the child with love and attention, instill moral values a personal example, do not allow physical punishments. Correctly control a circle of contacts of your child, his interests that he watches and reads. Write down it in sports section where the child will be able to give an energy output and will have an opportunity to ego-trip peacefully.