The excessive aspiration of parents to indulge all children's whims, generates the little commander who is accustomed to try to obtain the desirable, by requirements and hysterics. How to avoid it?
Instruction
1. It is important to begin with the established daily routine. It is wrong to allow the child is, only when he wants or to resolve noisy games until late at night. It is before going to bed obligatory to brush teeth and so on, any exceptions to the rules.
2. The child needs enough attention, its absence becomes the reason of excessive insistence. Children can purposely, to try to draw with bad acts attention to itself. Do not turn away from the child. If he asks about something, try to respond at once.
3. Even in case of a hysterics, the main thing not to lose self-control and will explain to the child with quiet, strict tone that so far he will not calm down, you will not talk to him. Give to the child time to calm down. You behave. You do not hurry to fulfill the requirements, in exchange for good behavior.
4. To be unshakable. Learn to tell a word, no. If today, it was decided not to buy toys, do not buy, even the smallest. Ignore the child's arrangements, later they can develop into requirements. Try always he will accurately keep the promises made to the kid, then to understand that your words correspond to actions.
5. Explain to the child that opinions and the interests of other people, are also important, as well as him. If he wants it to be loved and considered all desires, then it has to arrive also Care and the love has to be mutual if the child does not feel it from parents, is useless to demand from it any acts.
6. Watching the atmosphere reigning in family, the child can learn to demand in an imperative form just imitating the family. Parents need to watch themselves and the speech, the child, this specular reflection of the family.
7. You should not forget about a praise and encouragement. If the kid coped with something independently, surely praise him, be glad to his progress. Watching your sincere delight, the child will aspire again, to give you joy.