Whimsical children never cause affections in parents and the more so at people around. Why the child is whimsical? How to cope with this awkward situation?
Bases of whims
- The child sees how any of people around behaves, and copies their behavior. Hysterical mom has, as a rule, a whimsical child.
- If parents everything allow the kid, he will also be capricious.
- Usually the shouts and crying children try to obtain the desirable from the parents.
- To become the center of general attention – traditional motive for whimsical tricks.
- By means of similar behavior the child can refuse some actions imposed to it by parents.
- Any indisposition, bad mood – a reason for whims.
- Not all children can quickly adapt to an unfamiliar situation and foreign people therefore if the child was capricious in a similar situation, just take away him.
- There are cases when the kid himself cannot understand what he wants. Perhaps, he got hungry or was tired and it is the reason of its whims.
- When parents are attentive to the children, they with ease will notice the reasons of inadequate behavior and delicately will correct everything.
How not to follow the tastes of the capricious child?
- For as never give in on attempts of your child to receive the desirable by means of a hysterics. Children are bright therefore, having achieved the once, they will use this method constantly.
- When an attack close and you notice it, try to distract the child a conversation on a foreign subject or interest him in something another.
- If the kid is capricious during a disease, perhaps a little, it is worth indulging him, but absolutely slightly.
- The children having the favourite hobby, which are engaged in something pleasant will express less discontent and to be capricious.
- If the child suddenly began to go into hysterics and ride on a floor, c not stop plaintive crying, turn away from it, pretend as if you do not hear shouts. The small manipulator will understand that with you such focuses will not pass, and will begin to be capricious at you less, and it is possible, and absolutely will leave this useless invention.