For a long time behind pampers, diapers, children's diseases and sleepless nights. Behind the first class, constant fears, elementary school. And here began: "You understand nothing in life", "Do not climb in my life", "I know that it is necessary to me". The parent to be heavy, it is daily and ungrateful work. There is a wish that your child appreciated this work, but you should not wait from it for thanks. At children, especially teenagers, the whole world consists of them so to say to them that you try for them, is useless. It is the best of all to try further, and your work will be appreciated in about twenty years. But it is normal. And so far there is a wish to give several advice, helping communication with children
Instruction
1. Only tranquility. Even if you never in life shouted at children, at you all the same there come such moments when there is a wish to splash out all the nervousness and rage. You behave at the child and give vent to shouts and tears when he does not see you and does not hear. Let know to the child that you enough adult with healthy mentality.
2. Do not allow it to be rude. Not farewell any a rough word in the party. Quietly explain to it what to be rude to the parents inadmissibly as it is necessary to respect seniors and to constrain emotions. After all, rules of good form meanwhile did not cancel.
3. Do not forget that there are you. Be engaged not only the child, but also yourself. Be improved and tell about all events which happened to you. Consult with the child, tell about what upsets you and concerns. It is called emotional exchange.
4. Ideal education. According to experts, education without reprimands, scandals, reproaches and suggestions consists in education on own example. As far as you will be ideal, education will be so ideal. Kind of it is banal sounded, but children are our continuation.