What is necessary that from the child to grow up free, interesting, clever, strong and kind nature? When in the house the child appears free time and rest disappears. Parents have to be ready all the time to we love to surprises. Sometimes there is not enough experience and knowledge, then it is necessary to address literature and experts.
Here some councils of to which, parents will be able correctly to choose a reference point in education of the child. Psychologists and teachers claim that others example for children the best form of education.
At early age children copy the parents, after the senior friends, idols. And if your words do not correspond to your behavior, then the child will repeat that he saw and not that he heard. Together with it in it misunderstanding and resistance will be born.
It is not necessary to shift the unrealized dreams to the child. He is a completely different person who needs to live the life, but not means of achievement of your purpose. Help it to become yourself.
The reminder to the child that for it was made – depreciates your relations and teaches the child to the relations: you - me, I - you.
You teach children to be grateful on the example, after each request which is satisfied by the child surely you say: "Thanks!"
Learn to listen to the child's problems whatever they, in your opinion, were trifling with partnership, they are important for it and are not surmountable. A helpful advice and support here that he expects from you at that moment, but not criticism or condemnation.
Never offend the child that it did not happen. Acting this way, you keep the authority and give to confidence to the child in the forces. Especially, in the presence of other children or adults.
Your child is unlike other children. You love and accept him it what it is: with its shortcomings and advantages.
You love other people's children and you treat them as wish others concerned your children. "Other people's children are not!" - let this phrase will become key in your life and never leave other people's children in a trouble.
And finally I will remind that when in the house the child appears free time and rest disappears, but instead happiness appears. Protect it!