If the child became obstinate and stubborn, he already not so listens to words and requests of parents, then it is possible to tell that at the kid the crisis of three-year age began.
What to do?
First of all, it is necessary to try to prevent a roar and hysterics, to carry out prevention. If business reached shouts and cries, then it is necessary to follow certain rules.
Prevention. It is possible and is impossible
The constant bans irritate and do not conduct to anything good. It is necessary to allocate that it is strictly forbidden (to run out on the road, there is a lot of chocolate, to beat a cat) and it is obligatory to explain why. To resolve all the rest on circumstances, it is constant (and it is imperceptible) watching the child, not limiting his independence, but trying (again it is imperceptible) to direct him and to help.
I am
The child wants to make a lot of things itself – suffer, resolve (except for the strict bans about which it was told above), you learn and surely you praise.
Game
It is necessary to invent small game situations, competitions. Who will quicker put on – the child or "Kolobok in other city" (to pretend that the process course is constantly reported by phone – here Kolobok already put on a sweater, already he got a scarf).
Analog
To replace a subject which is not desirable for touching (if it does not enter the strict bans) some analog (toy copy) and to beat replacement.
Preliminary preparation
If guests come to the house soon, or the child will go somewhere where many children will gather, begin a conversation about it for several days. Explain rules of conduct, tell as well as where there will take place this event who will be there. If an event outdoors, then you come a bit earlier, for half an hour before to give to the child an opportunity to get used and switch to a new situation and new people.
Interest
If the child does not want to do something (except for cases when it is really dangerous or very unpleasant for him), it is necessary to create interest, to tell how it will be interesting and remarkable – with bright details.
Performance of these methods of prevention in many cases helps to prevent and avoid children's hysterics during crisis of the third year.