Various instructions which parents can give to the child develop at him diligence and prepare for adulthood. It is important to understand what works can be charged to the teenager and how to make so that he coped with the tasks set for it.
Concrete instructions
Each child has to carry out some obligations for the house. That parents will charge to it to do, depends on his health, abilities and other factors. Performance of various instructions on the house - good base for future adulthood.
As soon as the kid reaches rather "adult" age - about 4-5 years - it can begin to give simple, but absolutely concrete instructions. They have to be very clearly formulated. The request should not be understood by the child doubly. Tasks can be set so: to go to a certain place, to take a certain thing and to bring it. The subject which parents ask to bring has to be safe and such, what kid who is able to hold quietly in hands.
Housework
The child grows up and from the kid turns into the teenager. Now he is able to carry out more difficult tasks. For example, to wash dishes or to help with cleaning of the apartment. Requirements of parents have to be feasible to the teenager. It is possible to send the child to nearby shop, previously having explained where it is necessary to go and what needs to be bought. The first time with it can descend the adult and show location of shop and also explain and show on an example as purchases are made. However the child in this case does not need to be disregarded: he can give, for example, near cash desk money and to ask that he paid for the acquired goods. Thus he will already feel the contribution.
Duties depending on a sex of the child
There are general tasks with which is able to cope both the boy, and the girl. But there are also those things which in society can be carried out same-gender persons. Parents, of course, can force the girl to help to hammer nails, but at the same time it must be kept in mind that this occupation is not characteristic of a female at all. For future girls will approach to learn to iron clothes more, to wash the dishes or to help with cooking. There are also purely male occupations, for example, clogging of nails, work with the screw-driver and screws, work with the hammer and so on. It is natural that carrying out such tasks, the safety measures have to be very strictly observed, and it needs to be explained to the growing-up man. Performance by the child of various obligations for the house - an important element in his general education. Small instructions serve for development of attention and concentration, more volume tasks accustom to work and thoroughly train the teenager for future adulthood.