The most often found problem in family is a disobedient child. It would seem, parents all do correctly, bring up, dress, feed, buy toys, but that do, the child does not obey.
There is a lot of reasons of his disobedience and what it is worth dealing individually with each family. Often disobedient children meet in incomplete families where, as a rule, the child always remains with mom. Mothers because of the hyper guardianship often miss that moment when the behavior of the child gets out of hand.
In families where part in education is taken by the father, such problem meets much less often. As a rule, the father is always strict and fair with the child and can even punish for this reason children in full families more raised. Most often parents either abuse for disobedience, or punish. It is incorrect approach. Whatever child was, he is capricious not just like that. Here very thin approach, perhaps is necessary, it is necessary to carry out the whole psychological work with parents. It is necessary to try at least to try to listen to the child, to find out what disturbs him, than he is dissatisfied.
Often so uncontrollable disobedient children, due to the shortage of parental attention and love. They misbehave, shout, are capricious to draw attention to themselves, and they do it not specially, and subconsciously. It is not about purchase of toys, beautiful clothes, new tablets and phones, and about attention of parents.
It is necessary to talk to the children, to play joint games, to make friends, give parental love and caress, before going to bed to spend together time, to read the book, to kiss. Love, care, protection, tenderness and caress is what often is not enough for children and as to tell about it to the parents, they do not know, and look for other methods to draw attention to themselves.
The frequent problem when the child refuses to eat or is capricious at a table. It is not necessary to raise the voice, especially it is impossible to force. Does not want to eat? Well, let leaves because of a table. One will leave, two, three times... You should not worry, will get hungry - itself will approach and will ask to feed. But then similar hysterics, as a rule, are not watched a table.