In order that the child was happy, it is necessary to love him. But often it happens so, as we, adults, have to be able to show and to correctly give the love to children.
Instruction
1. When the child appears in your room or just approaches you, very clearly show that you are glad him to see. Try to smile, and not only lips, but also and eyes. Call the child by name, it very much is pleasant to all children. If you doubt what all this is necessary for, imagine, kind of it was pleasant to you if the person, important for you, was always happy when he sees you.
2. Teach the child of independence. Believe, it is normal when the child is provided to himself. There are some limits of communication of children and adults when adults need to leave for any reason. Therefore the child has to be able to play with himself. In it there is excellent plus – the child, playing with itself, develops the imagination and the imagination. But it is necessary to pick up that activity in which the child will be engaged in your absence. Whether it is necessary to say that the TV and the computer – not the best option? For example, teach him to love drawing. It is possible to teach gradually: at first yield to it a fruit for work, that is throw the idea, then just watch its drawing, and after that – give it a task and you leave, saying that you will come and you will guess what is represented in its drawing.
3. Limit to the child access to media. The child is in that age when his outlook, and in many media information generally negative is formed. Show it only kind transfers. Of course, cartoons will be priority.
4. Let know to the child that he is much more important, than your work. For this purpose it is quite enough when performing any work in the house to smile to the child, to stroke it, to ask about something and to listen to answers. It is much better, more reliable and more useful to listen to the child, than to speak to him: "Leave alone me, I am busy!". We, adults, are much more mobile in respect of concentration and attention.
5. It is necessary to train the child in some rules which will help to keep the healthy atmosphere and order in the house. Define when it is necessary to sleep, walk, play, do homework, to eat also many other things. Do not forbid the child to do what is quite natural to him, and – it is unpleasant for you. For example, to run or jump. The child needs it.
6. Train the child. Do not give all hundred percent of training in kindergarten or school, and actively participate in it: fill gaps, adjust, save, help out and help it. Besides, it is important to go with it on sections that it as a result defined what is pleasant to it.
7. Be an example for the children. Children always watch you and imitate you. If you tell them one, and to do another, you teach the child to hypocrisy.