Did you sometime notice how children differ? In one family can be as the violent, courageous and straightforward child, and quiet, slightly coward and sensitive child. But it, of course, does not mean that it is necessary to leave all this as is, educational process has to be present at an extent of all human life, and the most heavy responsibility in this case lies on parents.
The adequate self-assessment of the child has to be result of parental educational work. If it and is, then all problems anyway arising in adulthood of the child will be perceived by it without pain, grief and disappointment.
Remarkably the fact that education of the personality originates from mother's womb. At this time a task of parents consists in that they treated everything calmly, tolerantly and patiently, for nine months of pregnancy in future child the emotional stability, trust, stealthiness, care, shyness, self-confidence and a set of similar traits of character is put.
All these traits of character have to be combined and in harmony with each other, and this harmony entirely depends on an emotional condition of parents during pregnancy. It is, one may say, the base of the personality.
And here the kid appeared on light in which for it there is a lot of interesting and new, but, nevertheless, personal development is still not finished: only the first stage is passed. For the first year of life in the child his personal qualities of character which foundation was laid during pregnancy continue to be approved. And for the first year of life for the child important that both parents were near. It is the second stage of formation of the personality.
It is necessary that both parents as often as possible took the child on hands, embraced him, kissed and in every possible way showed him the love. But all these feelings have to "be given" to the child only when parents have a good mood. If the mood is "below zero", in general you should not come into the children's room. Both the good, and bad mood is very slight and is quickly transferred to the child and if it is negative, then and the child will grow up irritable and angry.