Women complain that it is less around real men. And from where to them to undertake? The real man needs to be brought up. At what to bring up from the earliest age.
That the man grew up from the boy, it is not necessary to bring up initially him as the girl. And a question at all not in that not to feel sorry for it or not to buy to it beautiful clothes. However in education of boys there are very important differences.
- The man has to bring up the man. Ideally - the father. The example. Because the boy copies behavior of the father. Words do not matter here, he will arrive as his father. Mothers, look at the husband, you want your son to be the same? If the father does not participate in education, the boy has to have other significant adult man. As soon as possible find such person and enter into a circle of contacts of the boy. It can be the grandfather, the trainer, the friend of the family. Only most responsibly approach the choice of this person.
- The man has to be responsible for the acts. From the earliest age it is necessary to see consequences of the actions and to undertake for them responsibility. Beginning from the eaten candy before the choice of higher education institution and the companion of life not in time. Parents, whether you allow the child to be responsible for the acts?
- Ability of to limit - one of the main in life of the real man. Ability to suffer and sacrifice. The scheme of education of the son (for dad) - "The best — mom. Because she is a girl. Then to a cat — because he is helpless and depends on us. And then to us with you. Because we are men".
- Psychological age of sex determination - 3 years. Since this age it is necessary to speak constantly to the son - ""you are Muzhchina!"" And not later, than from this age you have to accustom to a position ""!"" It is necessary treats the son as the adult. It does not mean that he does not need to be indulged, indulged and kissed - it is very necessary! It means that from this age plans of family are discussed with the child (reasonably, of course) - how to spend weekend what animal to get and why, the choice of clothes and important purchases, campaigns on a visit and the place for a picnic is discussed.
- It is necessary to allow the son to be mistaken. To fall and be soiled. And then to rise and most to wash the things. It is not necessary to punish - it is necessary to give the chance to correct the errors. The boy (and any man till an old age) - always the researcher. He studies borders of the world and expands them. The man has to be mobile, uneasy. It driving force of mankind. And the woman — force stable and keeping. Allow the boy to be mistaken and most to correct the errors - with your imperceptible hint.