The role of the father is important for each child, whether it be the boy or the girl, but, of course, for the boy the fatherly education is irreplaceable. The boy is future man and the example of male behavior, responsibility and force is extremely important for him. Statistics shows that the boy who grew up without father more often has asocial bents. Addicts, and even criminals quite often grow up from such children.
Many fathers think that so far the child is small, mother has to bring up him. But it not so. Of course, nobody says that to feed and the father has to swaddle, but play and in every possible way it is necessary to pay attention to the kid from the cradle. Creating, thus, strong communication of the father and son still since childhood.
During the period of a year to three, a circle of contacts of the kid small, it it and mom therefore nearby there has to be a father. The child, feeling the moral strength of dad, grows quiet and balanced.
After three years the child begins to look for borders between it is possible and it is impossible, to be beyond permitted and to try to be independent. At the same time it to become whimsical and disobedient. And here, dad will be tougher than mom, will draw a line through which it is impossible to pass quicker will pacify the prankster.
From three to 6 years, the boy as the sponge, absorbs and imitates behavior of the father. Very important that during this period the father was near, at this age begins formations of its character.
In 6-7 years, the boy already to become the little man. Here already male skills and habits take root. Mom recedes into the background, she cannot understand men's issues or advise how to arrive in any given situation, it is them with dad a man's world. At this age it is the best of all to send the child to what be section on fight, karate and so forth.
Teenage period
The teenage period, is much important. Here the child rather already the teenager – the man, tries to get out of parental hand. And here even to the most wonderful father will maintain not easy good relations with the son. At this age children perceive everything too sharply, this time of the decision global as it seems to them at that time, problems. Here at this stage of the relations what was the father earlier plays an important role as there were relations at children's age. From here it will also become clear whether the father's teenager will obey.
The authoritative and strong father, will cope in any situation. Whereas mom at this age is usually powerless.