Several decades ago reading to children of fairy tales for the night was tradition in many families. With the advent of computers and other modern gadgets the number of the parents reading to the children books was sharply reduced. This big omission, reading fairy tales plays a large role in education of the child.
Role of fairy tales in formation of the identity of the child
Fairy tales are not only an element of national, or author's folklore, in them the core moral values, definitions of the good and evil are put. It is the reality written in children's language. Through magic stories you pass on to the kid life experience, the relation to the world and acquaint it with customs of the different people.
Reading fairy tales is necessary not only for the general development of the child. There is a special technique of education by the fairy tale – a skazkoterapiya. Fairy tales can assist in difficult life situations and in fight against negative qualities of character of the kid. It is possible to solve various children's problems with their help: aggression, fears, uneasiness, lie and others. Listening to a magic story, the child identifies himself with the main character of the narration, empathizes it and studies on its mistakes.
Reading fairy tales to children is an excellent family tradition. For kids, the fairy tale is the world in which all of them understand, can distinguish good from the evil, fidelity from treachery. Magic stories perfectly develop imagination, improve brain activity, help to form the identity of the child and also train him for adulthood.
Selection of fantastic literature
Select for reading to the child kind and instructive fairy tales where for diligence and bravery award, and angry and lazy characters lose. For kids it will be useful to get acquainted with "Father Frost", "Brownie Kuzya", stories about a cunning fox and other animals.
On sale there are children's sets which special are developed by a technique "education by the fairy tale".
It is possible to read both national, and author's fairy tales, the main thing that they bore a positive and useful moral message. There are therapeutic fairy tales written for the solution of a certain problem.
Be not too lazy and check the fairy tale before reading it to the child. Now on sale it is possible to meet familiar stories in very free and ambiguous treatment.
The good option is to write own fairy tale with the child. A magic story can be invented, having taken a real children's problem as a basis. The fantastic hero has to face similar complexity and having passed a number of tests with honor to get out of a difficult situation. Offer the child through the fairy tale several ways of solving the problem, be only correct, magic history has to cast only parallel associations with reality, but not copy a problem of the kid one in one.