Children's psychologists claim that aged up to 1.5 years the child has a mortgaging of bases of attitude and installation of living position - success or diffidence.
From 0 to 3 months
The baby at this age it is only capable to feel temperature, touches, smells, to see visions. The main feeling is a presence or the absence is near to mother, her heat and a smell. At such age touches, caress, kisses and words pronounced by tender tone are necessary for the kid. Embrace and kiss your kid, the more often, the better!
From 3 months to 1.5 years
During this period still significant are tactile interactions of the kid and mom. About half a year the child has no own system of reaction, he completely depends on mother, making with it a whole. The emotional background of mom is completely transferred to the child therefore it is so important not to worry and not to be nervous when you hold the beloved child on hands or just are nearby.
Putting love and positive emotions in the child, mother promotes formation at the kid self-assured that is very significant for all future life.
Mortgaging of bases of the free, self-assured personality
Happy, quiet, self-assured mom always feels needs of the child and carries out them. The child surrounded with love, knowing that mom will always take care, will be near and will support in any situation, grows also happy and strong in spirit. Feeling such enormous support and internal strength of mother, the kid safely explores the world around. Being fed with energy of mother, it has own internal confidence that it is useful in adulthood, for the solution of the problems which arose before it.
Formation of uncertainty of the child in
If mother stays in a condition of alarm, discomfort, neurosis, then it by definition will not be able to grow up the happy child. Such children have no confidence that mother will give support, will not push away and will not punish. In similar conditions the child is not capable to explore the world around quietly. Mother using escape of the child as punishment, risking to grow up emotionally unstable child subject to psychoses and diffident. There is still other extreme: excessive guardianship. Disturbing parents constantly brake the child in development, stopping shouts: do not touch, do not run, others do not jump and a lot ""not"". Such behavior leads to formation of passivity at children, in the future the child and continues to behave, wait, not to touch, not to go forward.
Bringing up the kid, it is necessary to remember that from the earliest age, your child - the personality. Consider his requirements and interests, and the positive result will not keep itself waiting long.