When we observe how our children lovely play, piling up a tower from cubes, or play "house", nobody thinks of that, games are how important for children. To us, to adults it seems as if it is only children's entertainments, missing the moment about mental and physical development of the child. But, putting cubes, covering a doll with a blanket, disassembling the machine, the child develops, studies the world around.
Toys
Children by the nature prefer simpler toys, difficult. Notice, beautiful cars of the railroad quickly bother the kid, but with what pleasure he plays with cubes, imitating the train. Also and with dolls. The usual doll, sadly lies in a box for toys, but once the child hints that the doll can be rolled up, dressed then at the child eyes light up, and he begins to play as if a doll new. And all because children have big imagination. Toys and games always closely intertwine among themselves.
Plays as can
Buying by a toy to the child, we not always expect on whether the kid will be able to play it? Not always the child can deal with the difficult mechanism of a toy. In that case, you do not blame the kid for not skill, better imperceptibly withdraw and hide for a while. Having bought a doll, with a set of clothes for it, you represent how your baby will play it. What your surprise if the baby began to dress a doll not from a dress, and from a jacket. You of course, can correct the child, but if so it do not prevent to be pleasant to it. Thus, the child develops. Tries to compare the facts. If your child paints the sky with green paint, then it not because he does not know. Give carte blanche to the child.
Give - it is mine
How often we hear such phrase from children. From the most tender age we try to impart to the child of the rule of conduct. Being surprised that the child does not react to remarks of seniors, it is not clear at all why so occurs. Such behavior is justified as physically the child is not able to sympathize and share yet. Over time, communicating with peers, gradually he will learn to be on friendly terms and play together. If the child is accustomed to take away toys from all and always, do not punish him. It can cause feeling as if you against it in the child. Try to take away it to children is more senior that he saw other behavior model. Perhaps, after communication with the senior children, it will begin to do in a different way.
And in general, you love the child it what he is. Support him in any situation. The kid will feel support, and grow healthy and happy.