The first weeks after the delivery young mom so preserves the baby that intuitively limits contacts with relatives and friends. As a result after a while the woman appears in a peculiar vacuum. Attempts to return the former relations fail. Rapprochement occurs only with those who have kids. Childless friends are not always ready to listen about achievements of yours of the baby. You do not judge them strictly, look for other common ground with them. Also are not sad!
With the advent of the kid you will have a unique chance to get new friends. Only now you will meet not in cafe, and in a sandbox or on a visit. With the last we advise not to pull and announce the first collecting. At your place!
We think out the ideas
The warm atmosphere of a friendly meeting during the winter period is relevant more than ever. The experiment with the new recipe of pie, and tasting of a new grade of tea can become a reason for the invitation also. The charm of a meeting is in that, as for kids it is an opportunity to play together, to investigate new toys. And, anyway, and hour on a talk they will give you (certainly, you will look after conflict situations). That to embody it, kids have to be familiar. But if you invite the old girlfriend with the tot, and your children did not see each other yet, not a problem too: kids find a common language even quicker, than adults.
We train the baby
By rules of hospitality, it is necessary to prepare the house and a treat that it was pleasant to friends. Connect to it and the kid. Discuss an issue of toys. Warn that its machines, dolls, pencils and even ware other children will use. Promise to interfere always with the conflicts and to protect its interests. Well and, of course, keep a promise. Though if you offer children the interesting program, you will constantly send their energy to the peaceful course, no problems arise.
We study sensitivity
Sometimes it happens so that your girlfriend adheres to an education method alien to you. As a result you are angry, trying to bring to reason her. Or, on the contrary, your tot irritates her, or kids did not divide something. Well, learn from this a lesson. The fact that your close girlfriend was "not the really correct mom" does not mean at all that to friendship the end. Just from now on and you will forever meet without children. And friendship will only become stronger.
We think out classes
True friends will never exhaust subjects for communication and will always find, than to be engaged, and together with kids. Puppet theater, reading fairy tales in roles, board games, search of treasures … We hope, your guests, leaving, will say: "Was great! When again will we gather?" It is success!
Games for the companies
Remarkably, if your kid – the real ringleader. But not all children can be instigators of games. Help the baby – suggest to lead little guests to the nursery and show them toys. Well and, of course, in advance prepare stock for games.
"Sports meet". The bowling, table football, a hide-and-seek and dominoes with big enthusiasm will apprehend children of any age. Shortly explain rules and you watch that nobody broke them and did not use cunning.
"Young builder". Kids will always find application by cubes for the designer. Suggest them to construct the highest tower or a lodge for small toys (for example, from under the kinder surprise), a defensive construction for soldiers. Girls with great interest will make shift in a doll lodge and will equip it.
"Tent". Plastic, cardboard, linen … Any lodge – a hit for kids. They will instantly start a game, will visit to each other, to place in a small hut of soft animals. There will be both a hospital, and the dining room, and a garden.