To support a self-assessment of the child high the most important part of education. The child should not have complexes, otherwise he will lead not bright and boring life. Parents, never forget that the child requires constant attention and care, help him with everything.
From where does the self-assessment at the child undertake?
Adults have to help to create to the child a high self-assessment. The child at the child a self-assessment develops on the basis of some conclusions and ideas of himself. And he takes these representations from adults, but the most important, he scoops them from the parents.
Parents, begin with yourself
You do not say that at you affairs go worse, than at all. Get off a negative mind, bear positive energy. The child is your reflection. If you do not want at the child complexes to develop, then do not give to him even a reason for this purpose. Encourage it, you say that he is a good fellow. Let it accept only positive energy of you. Only then he can become a winner on life.
Give a habit to children
Let your child, as well as you, will think of himself only good, let he will control the thoughts. They have to be only positive. And if it was called bad words, then explain to him that it did not accept these insults. Let arrives the same as it would arrive with a gift: if somebody presented it a gift, and it did not accept it, then the gift will belong to another. Insults should not be accepted, let they will belong to the one who stated them.
Encourage the child
You praise the child even for small fulfillments. Not scale perfect, and positive result is important. The praise will allow the child an incentive to overcome all new barriers which will be much. Give it your positive emotions, and then it will amplify several times. Also, the child gets many positive emotions if started personally by it it turns out. Therefore you should render though the small help in its business, but this help will become the reason of raising of a self-assessment.
You are respectful to the child
Never you say to him that it not to cope with any task, it can increase chance of emergence of a complex. Even if something is impossible to the child, do not abuse him and the more so do not offend.
So, to grow up the champion, it is necessary to follow these rules. Your child can become the happiest, then and you will be glad.