The behavior of own child sometimes brings parents into the real rage. They begin to shout and slap him, but next day the bad act can repeat again. There is it because to abuse children too it is necessary to be able. Correct punishment will become guarantee of good behavior in the future.
Instruction
1. Constrain emotions. To be a parent - heavy work, and a priority for you - development of iron patience. To grow up the full member of society, it is necessary to watch for by the own words and actions at the punishment moments. Sometimes you for yourself can imperceptibly offend and humiliate the child that will affect not only your further relations, but also formation of his personality.
2. You do not shout. Increase in a voice it is not always possible to achieve something. It is not obligatory to swear, passing to raised tone. The conversation with the child will be much more effective. Become so that to look to it in the face (it is possible to sit down or lift him on a chair), and explain what in his behavior was wrong why so it is impossible to do and for what it is condemned by adults. Such conversation affects children better than any shouts and slaps.
3. Do not allow to lecture your kid to someone to another. There are mom and dad who can criticize acts and say how it is impossible to do. Other aunts and uncles have to raise the children, but not attempt upon yours. Do not give it in offense, quite so he perceives that you allowed the aunt Masha to shout at it.
4. Do not consider all offenses as one. For each child it has to be punished, but do not mention at all that constantly something is impossible to him that he clumsy or is not able to behave. One offense - one reproach.
5. Be fair. Deprivation of a favourite game or viewing cartoons for the fact that the child forgot to put a cup in a sink will be not quite correct. Try to choose punishments in proportion to offenses.
6. Do not allow physical punishments. Yes, you can spank the child, drag sharply and roughly from "crime scene", but you should not do it. It will only intimidate him and will force you to be afraid that it will hardly result in good relations in family.