Whether it is possible to spoil the child at absolutely early age? If you got used to carry out all its whims, to indulge and to constantly carry it on hands, then you have every chance to become the slave to the child. Such child gets used to manipulate the relatives, they it is crazy about him - for hours hold him on a lap, play, entertain him - he constantly in the center of attention. After a while such kid will forget to be in loneliness, will not be able to entertain himself independently in case of need. It is worth leaving to mom for five minutes such child of one, to be heard immediately shouts and crying. Such dependence will become parents in burden soon. How not to get under a tiny heel of the child?
Instruction
1. At first it is necessary to understand the pamperedness reasons. The long-awaited kid - meaning of life for any parents. Mom and dad feel the responsibility for this tiny being whether constantly worry correctly all of them do. Therefore, having hardly caught crying of the baby, mothers and grandmothers at full speed run on call. Especially, it concerns the first children when there is no experience yet and all it is a new experience. Also the parents of long-awaited children, parents not confident in the opportunities of the correct education, and parents wishing to embody own ambitions in children arrive.
2. How to re-educate the whimsical baby? The main thing, it it is timely to notice that the child begins to abuse the position of the helpless favourite. It is necessary to arm, despite pity to the beloved child, with will power, hardness and the sequence. It is necessary to understand that pamperedness will not bring to the child benefit in the future. The whimsical child, can and looks touchingly to a certain degree, but the whimsical adult - is at least unpleasant for people around. Therefore desire to help the child grow the worthy person has to become the main reason for resolute actions.
3. Now directly about re-education. For a start make to yourself the schedule of free time. Try to begin to do a part of household chores when the kid is awake. Create very occupied look, on requests of a crumb to stay with it, friendly, but firmly explain to it that you are busy that this work very urgent and has to be executed exactly today. Try to make an impression on the child. Most likely the child will understand the meaning of your words not at once, but do not recede from conceived - these first hours the most difficult, but at the same time the most decisive. Children quickly get used to everything - also your kid will get used. Try to talk more during cleaning to the child, to explain to him that exactly and why you do. Constantly hearing your voice the child will quicker calm down. When affairs are redone and you decided that it is time to be engaged in the child, try not to carry him on hands for hours as earlier, and put him to yourself on knees and try to play with it thus. Let gradually gets used to independence.