Often the reasons of conflict situations between the child and the parent is desire of the last to splash out the negative emotions and also fatigue and irritation on the kid. In the relations the serious crack which will become the reason of disagreements for the rest of life can result from it. That to avoid it and not to push away from itself the child, it is important to admit the guilt in time and to try to correct a situation.
Instruction
1. Think whether often you impose the overestimated requirements to the child and you are angry if it does not meet your expectations. For example, if the kid went to shop and forgot, something to buy or to it incorrectly gave delivery. Try to define what expectations are fair and what – are not present in what situations it is necessary to show severity and in what - it is impossible to abuse the child. Prepare and gradually accustom the kid to responsibility, and already then demand something from him.
2. When in education of the child the active part is taken by both parents, sometimes there are situations in which their opinions in any given question do not coincide. And then the kid is lost and does not know whom to obey and how to do right thing. If it occurred, alone discuss this problem with the second parent and ask the child to fulfill the requirements which do not contradict each other.
3. Sometimes fatigue, tension, problems at work and many other things has an adverse effect on the relations between parents and children. If you sometime unfairly accused the child of what he did not make, or just splashed out on him the rage and irritation, surely find time, talk to it and ask forgiveness.
4. It is very difficult to child to understand what can be done and what is impossible because of your inconsistency of actions. For example, if to the kid is permitted to hit you at home, and on the street you will abuse it for this act and to punish, in his shower there can be a conflict. Reaction is possible various – for usual offense before aggression and rage.
5. Happens that children ask absolutely usual things from parents, and in reply receive gruff and unreasonable reply. If the child asks to get a doll or to take out the bicycle to the yard, some parents are irritated and try to avoid it, and it is your duties.
6. Not to push away from itself the child, be able to admit the guilt and to correct errors. Only this way you keep his respect, trust and love.