To be a good parent, it is not enough to provide the child to all necessary: food, drink, housing, clothes, toys, drugs. It is not enough to educate it. It is important correct to bring up it.
Instruction
1. Get acquainted with fundamentals of children's psychology. For this purpose get the corresponding literature, find the training movies or look for information on the Internet. Knowledge of how nursery mentality is arranged, will help you to understand that it is necessary for your child.
2. Give to the child not only love, but also respect. It is very important to it to feel that reckon with it that he is a person, though small.
3. Do not trust the education methods offered by other parents or teachers, blindly and unconditionally. Remember that your child is unique, and approach to it has to be the. There is no universal system allowing to grow up the ideal child. There are only main, indisputable truths, you have to grope the rest.
4. Accustom the child to independence. If he is already in that age to choose to itself(himself) clothes, let will make it. Gradually you teach it to look after yourself, to prepare and maintain purity.
5. Try not to interfere with its relations with peers. Only extreme cases can be exceptions: when you see that the child suffers from something or feel that got under negative impact.
6. Forget about double standards. If you accustom the child to be polite - do not swear before him. You want that he removed himself - do not leave ware dirty, and a bed not filled. Everything that you demand from the child, have to do and you are.
7. Care for health of the kid. You watch its food and since childhood accustom to healthy food. Besides, it is important that the child was physically active. Do daily exercises the obligatory paragraph of its schedule.
8. You watch the child's self-assessment. Do not assume that he was teased, and he felt worse than others. Explain to the kid that all people different, and teach to give verbal repulse to offenders. Try to dress well him, it is very important factor affecting popularity in children's society.
9. Be engaged in development of the child. School education happens insufficiently to achieve success. Let your kid attend sports section, art or music school. Surely ask what he wants to do itself, but do not force the child to be engaged perspective, from your point of view, in business.
10. Teach the child to express the feelings. Emotions, especially negative, demand an exit. Talk to the kid when you see what is with him not everything is all right, let's it be uttered.