Transition to the first class is very important event for the child and for the adult. Other life, new rules, the new mode, new difficulties begins with this stage absolutely. Anyway the child needs the help of parents to adapt to the new mode, to feel a part of a class, to learn to control the day and the work.
Often happens so that the child does not differ in special progress in study. Perhaps, something is given him more difficultly, and something is easier. Then dissatisfied parents try to solve a problem various, sometimes rigid, methods. For example, to forbid to go for a walk, to watch a favourite cartoon or to play, believing that thereby they, will push the kid to study. But most often everything turns out on the contrary: the child opposes and negatively speaks of study.
Such relation to education is developed thanks to punishments of parents because the child draws a parallel and considers that the school is guilty of all his bans. Of course, it will not be shown at once, but if the situation repeats regularly, then such relation at the child and will be created. Usually, such problem lasts until the end of academic year, and in the started case – to teenage age.
To understand the child, parents needed to remember what to them at receipt in the first class as it was difficult and disturbing. If the school student has any difficulties, then it is possible to address psychologists. This expert can help to understand various situations and to the child and his parents. And the most important is to keep trust in family.
Parents have to construct the relations with the kid so that he could always address them for support. The child has to feel that he is understood, love and appreciate. He needs to know that do not wish it harm but only only care for it. The psychologist can play an important role in this question. It can help family to keep trusting relationship
Extremely often parents consider that the more the child studies, the better. But, as well as any person, at the kid has to have a rest, especially, when business concerns walks in the fresh air. Therefore for the fact that the child was not indignant and did not speak negatively innovations parents need to talk to him and to discuss a new daily routine which will include both study and rest.
There are children who want to go to sports or creative sections, but parents consider that it is not as important as study. They are mistaken. As you should not forget about interests and hobbies of the child. Especially as change of activity is a best holiday, especially when it goes for the good.