Often many children upset the parents and refuse to help them when their help is required. Adults begin to abuse the children, without realizing that first of all they as it was necessary to accustom kids to work since early childhood are guilty. How to accustom the child to help?
Instruction
1. You ask about the help, even when the kid is still very small. Do you tide up? Small children like to help parents. They constantly strive to snatch out a rag from hands, to take the vacuum cleaner, to wash the dishes. However mom often herself limits the child, in a type of what at the kid will not manage to be made as it is necessary. Allow to make to the child everything independently, and after you all you will correct and you will remake. The main thing is not to refuse to him, otherwise subsequently the child will get used that do not need his help and will cease to respond to requests.
2. You treat work calmly and loyally, but not with hatred and a reluctance. If it is necessary to go and work in a kitchen garden, go with pleasure there – set a bright example. The child, looking at such relation to labor therapy, will not oppose. He will begin to perceive work as something self-evident, it will not burden him. On the contrary, it will physically help and work with pleasure.
3. Encourage the child and you praise him when he performs some work even if insignificant. He will instantly feel the importance and will want to be constantly necessary where the help is required. You remember the well-known phrase: "work – improves the person". Be an adherent of this phrase and you teach the children to the same.