Sooner or later each mom begins to accustom the child to a pot, previously having had heard plenty of the recommendations of people around. Actually it is not such difficult process as it seems at first sight. It is important to organize correctly this moment, relying on psychological and physiological development of the kid.
In the course of schooling of the child to a pot it is not necessary to be guided by the recommendations of grandmothers, neighbors, girlfriends and the aunt. This mistake is made by many mothers. Always the one who will tell that his child began to go to a pot nearly from 6 months will occur in your path. It begins to suggest you an idea: "What is my child worse?" You begin to accustom the kid to a pot even if it against.
At this stage you have to understand for yourself that it is more important - your kid or opinion of people around? If the child of the neighbor sat down on a pot in a year, and yours in 2 years does not want, still does not speak about anything.
In this process there are only three important components: - development of bodies of urination; - condition of nervous system; - pedagogical activity of relatives. If the child has no pathologies in development, then sooner or later he will learn to celebrate the need in the put place. You only have to know that average age of schooling of the child to a pot 2.3-3 years. At this moment the brain begins to control secretory functions consciously. At someone this communication is formed earlier, at someone later. Therefore look narrowly at the kid and listen to him. As soon as you hear" him, will draw the correct conclusion for yourself. Very early schooling to a pot usually brings to hysterics and negative attitude to this process. It is not necessary to put violently at all, to shout at it. Just it is not ready to it, forget about a pot for 1-2 months. Return to diapers. It is not necessary to injure mentality of the child and the. Let's say you managed to accustom the child to go to a pot in a year. Then be ready that this process will be unstable. Because that reflex which you developed at the child absolutely not that it is necessary actually. The child not yours has to induce "p-p" or "and-and", and physiological process (filling of a bladder). And the corresponding resistant conditioned reflexes are formed by three years. As soon as you noticed desire at the child, can safely continue the undertakings. It is easier to do it in summertime of year - simpler to take off clothes dries quicker and quicker. Show to the kid a pot: as to open it how to sit down. Explain for what it is necessary. If at the child it turned out to celebrate need in the put place, praise. If is not present, do not show the chagrin. Suggest to sit down on a pot after a dream or food. At such moments the probability of "process" is most high. Accustom the child to a pot gradually, it is not necessary to refuse diapers at once. Put on them on walk, on a visit, in policlinic. Then try to organize meetings with a pot not only when it is time and as that is demanded by a daily routine. For example, before walk, a dream. And over time you will notice how your kid will start going to a pot without hysterics and shout.