The accuracy is expressed in love for an order, accuracy in affairs, sense of duty, external neatness. How to teach the child of accuracy, but at the same time not to go too far, having made of him too anxious neatnik?
To accustom the child to accuracy it is possible to begin with early age though seriously to demand it from the kid 1.5 years are younger is not necessary. At such children the coordination of movements is developed still not really well to make something accurately. And to understand where an order and where is not present, it is difficult so far.
Two-three-year-old children usually begin to test parents to find out how strongly they can break the bans. Often they consciously make a mess. In that case you should not start with the child arguments, it most likely will only set on him. Just it is better to show that mom is upset with such behavior of the kid.
Sometimes it is necessary to allow the child to be soiled in dirt, in sand, in paint, it is loved by almost all children. But at the same time to explain that if you go, for example, on a visit or to kindergarten, it is necessary to be clean and tidy.
Children are more senior than three years are already capable to remove after the creative occupation to the place of paint, scissors, plasticine, to throw out paper scraps. Only you should not distract the child during the occupation, and to stipulate in advance that his creativity surely has to be completed with establishing order.
However it is impossible to be obsessed with an order and purity too. It is so possible to kill any aspiration of the child to creativity, its initiative. At aspiration to an ideal in everything there is a risk to grow up the orderly person obsessed with purity. It is heavy to such people to be in society, any disorder irritates them. So, it is necessary to remember golden mean.
The accuracy is put, first of all, by a situation in family. Children, imitating adults, too begin to aspire to an order and purity. They learn to brush teeth, to wash, wash hands, to make the bed, to remove into place the toys, clothes, footwear. The task of adults is to impart to children intolerance to dirt, carelessness and slovenliness.