Each parent understands that giving only verbal instructions, it is not always possible to achieve the necessary effect of the child. At least, such tactics will work for the time being, and then will begin to lose the force gradually. Many of us think that a word it is necessary to cultivate diligence in the child. Let's understand, whether so it.
In the early childhood the kid is very active. And sometimes accustoming him to work, we simply put its unruly energy on the right track. Besides carrying out simple instructions, the child learns to overcome difficulties, studies persistence, patience. But at the same time too big gravity at such age should not be demanded and expected. It is necessary to understand that even the adult is not always hardworking and responsible in performance of any tasks. Therefore trying to teach the child, it is necessary to point patiently and persistently to him to flaws. The irritation and excessive insistence will only push away him.
What to begin with?
In two years the kids already try to put on. Most likely, in order that the child correctly tied laces or buttoned a shirt on all buttons, not one year, but simple instructions as that will leave: to put on a hat or a jacket, it already quite can . The five-six-year-old child can help with cleaning of house or yard. It is just necessary to motivate it and to help if something is impossible as failures can discourage at it. And do not adjust the kid at all, be patient. "Hurry up", "eat up quicker". Such relation gradually begins to cause obstinacy and a protest in the child. And instead of it is good to do everything, the child to spite begins to dig, causing a bigger irritation of parents.
Naturally, it is necessary to consider also possibilities of the child. Excessive physical activity can provoke exhaustion or cause a backbone curvature. Therefore do not force your six-seven-year-old child to carry weights. It will not lead to anything good.
It is important to impart to the child love for work, the aspiration to achieve success in any business. And from it he will derive pleasure. And, as we know, what we like to do we do again and again.
How to achieve it?
Work for the preschool child – often only attempt to imitate what is done by adults. Show imagination and turn that, what are you doing into a game. For example, cleaning of toys can be presented as laying of all toys to sleep. Machines can be driven into "garage". The child will be keen on such game, and you will spend time with benefit for both of you. But excessive pressure can do much harm therefore everything needs to be done gradually.
Installation
It is important to show to the child that his work is very important. For example, if you are busy with washing, suggest it to wash doll clothes. At the same time it is necessary to achieve that the kid did it carefully and made sure that fresh linen. If from the first it did not turn out – all the same praise and calm him: "do not worry, tomorrow it will turn out even better". So your child will be satisfied with the performed work.
Mistakes which we make
Do not accustom the child to work from time to time at all. Create for him "list" of duties. Let, for example, he will daily have to make the bed or sweep the floor in the apartment. Such instructions will cultivate in it responsibility, conscientiousness, discipline. And it very much is useful to it in adulthood.
Some parents justify lack of labor education at the child with the fact that they have on it no time. They often seek to perform any given work as they consider that the child will do the same much longer. Such relation will only develop laziness, causing irritation of adults. But if to show patience and yet to allow the kid to prove, then in three-four years your kid himself will already put on tights, to put shoes on, without demanding the help and without rolling up hysterics.