It is necessary to accustom the child to an order from early age. Many psychologists are sure that the earlier the kid will begin to understand the duties, the it will be easier for him at teenage age. The ability to clean up toys, is correct to fold clothes and to wash a plate after a meal will impart to the child accuracy and understanding of as persons.
Instruction
1. To train the son or the daughter it is necessary to help parents about the house from 2-3 years. It is the best of all to turn cleaning into a cheerful game, motivating with that desire of the child. Teach the kid to place toys in the room as it is pleasant to him only. Show how it is necessary to make a bed after night sleep, where to put a pillow and as it is correct to lay a blanket. Do not forget to praise the child and to say that he already just as the adult, believe, these words will be pleasant.
2. Follow the principle of gradualness, it is not necessary to force the child to clean up if he does not want it, never you pass to shout, threats and ultimatums. Try to show and explain to the kid what to keep the things and toys in an order is its direct duty, and he very much upsets you with the disobedience. Never bribe the child words: "You will bring order now, and I will give you tasty candy". In the future it will not bring anything good, besides, the child will understand that favor is followed by a material praise.
3. Set an example and begin house cleaning probably that the kid willingly will help you with it. Dust shelves, having shown as it needs to be done, suggest to wipe other regiments independently. That process went easy and cheerfully, turn on the music which will lighten the mood and to you, and the kid. After cleaning is complete, praise the child and tell that you very much are proud of him.