The modern rhythm of life often forces both parents to work at works from early morning to late evening. Respectively, teenagers, coming home from school, are often provided to themselves. And that they sometimes do houses, it is known only to them one, but when parents come back from work, the sheer disorder and chaos can find houses. As to accustom the teenager to an order?
Instruction
1. Whatever mess you saw in the apartment, try to react quietly. Do not make scandals. You remember - the more you will shout at children and teenagers, the less they will understand and perceive quiet communication.
2. Ask the teenager as there took place him day, than he was busy in the evening. Find out the reason of origin of a mess. Ask that from now on it did not suit it and this time surely cleaned up. If detailed incidents repeat repeatedly, then explain that it is unpleasant to you to be in such mess. Let the child understand that it is necessary to keep the house clean if not for the sake of then for the sake of other family members.
3. Try to select useful affairs for the child. If he has no lessons, let he will be busy with any business. It will allow it to apply the energy for peaceful purposes.
4. But sometimes nothing similar occurs, in the house the sudden big mess is not formed. The disorder collects gradually. The child simply does not clean up a thing, something gets and does not put back, scatters clothes and footwear. And if, for example, parents do not clean after him, then gradually the house will turn into one big disorder in which it will be impossible to find anything. What to do in this case? For a start try to explain to the child why it is necessary to clean up things.
5. If it does not yield any results, try to pass to more radical measures. Do not use physical force only at all. If prior to a conversation with the teenager you followed on heels and all cleaned after it, stop to do it. The thing will roll about several days in full view of the teenager, and then, most likely, he will remove it.
6. If it does not occur, and the teenager continues to scatter the things on all apartment and cleans up nothing, try to influence him in his way. Put some rather large thing directly on pass. In other words, throw it there. But make it so that it especially disturbed and created obstacles for all. It is impossible that the teenager did not pay attention to it. If he is indignant about it, cite as an example his own behavior. After such picture belief he, most likely, not only will clean up things, but also will put back that you threw. Such simple way without effort will help to accustom the child to an order and to avoid excess scandals and quarrels. And at teenage age they are especially sharply felt.