It is very important to pay attention to the standard of speech of the teenager in time and if there are problems, the given advice will help them to solve.
Instruction
1. First of all parents need to begin with themselves. Pay attention to communication in family, perhaps, at you sometimes slip obscene words and inner circle of the child feeds in it aspiration to curses. The teenager can consider that to be expressed by obscene language it is sign of growing, the main example for imitation, parents, use these expressions.
2. You should not impose the direct ban on obscene expressions as you will at once encounter resistance from the teenager, children do not suffer instructions and try to act counter to parents. Point that the use of expressions in that, or other situation is simply inappropriate, especially for the adults respecting themselves and vice versa looks, rather childly. On an example specify the famous successful people who achieved success and influence, thanks to ability to communicate, in clean cultural language.
3. Perhaps, the teenager does not understand value of some, used expressions. Ask value of those, or other phrases. Perhaps, having discussed values and irrelevance of their use, the child will cease to be expressed by rough words.
4. Pay attention to the child's environment, perhaps, the bad company affects ability to be expressed your child. Ask the teenager why he does it, seeks not to lag behind others, is afraid to seem unworthy attention of friends. Explain to the child that true friends will perceive him it with what he eats actually and at the same time to appreciate his personal qualities. Friends, this environment of people who are ready to support at any time.
5. You should not punish children for the use of obscene expressions strictly. Perhaps, the child in such a way to seek to draw your attention, to cause a certain reaction. Therefore do not react violently to similar tricks. On the contrary, try not to react to the similar speech, and at the child the need for strong words will disappear.
6. Perhaps, it is time to change a circle of contacts of the child, to dip it into other atmosphere and will acquaint with new people. Suggest the teenager to choose to yourself work to liking, the sports section, a musical circle will approach, anything, that will be able to cultivate in the child aspiration to discipline and good manners.