"What undisciplined child!" – often such words can be heard at school or kindergarten, and, maybe, even on the street to the rowdy-dowdy and cocky kid. And what with it to do to parents? How to accustom the child to discipline? And what in general it discipline?
Instruction
1. First of all, do not confuse discipline and a mushtra. The discipline is an ability of the person to correctly organize the time in total with ability to follow standards of public conduct. It also needs to teach the child. How to achieve it?
2. Try to motivate the child to the disciplined behavior. Only you should not interest him in material benefits. The motivation has to be internal, but not external. Even to the most small child not all the same as he looks before people around. Thus, try to play on its reputation. Explain that about it his peers, teachers, tutors and other people will have not a really good opinion if he behaves badly.
3. Moreover, bring to understanding of the child, it is how bad not to be able to dispose of own time and to neglect time of others. For example, some people take delay for insult. Give to the kid examples of importance of personal and others' time.
4. However keep in mind that many children are undisciplined not because of their absent-mindedness or simple extravagance of character. Sometimes the bad behavior of the child or constant delay is his attempt to draw attention to itself. For example, at lessons the child can behave and show badly thus indiscipline because of a lack of attention from the teacher or schoolmates. In this case explain to the child when and as it is possible to prove before people around that it was not perceived as hooliganism.
5. The indiscipline in respect of sluggishness and various delay can proceed from inability to time at children's age also. Try to sit down and count before a responsible campaign together with the child somewhere, what is the time it will be required on the road and collecting. The kid has to understand why it is necessary to leave, for example, for an hour, but not for half an hour or 15 minutes.
6. At last, the lack of forces and energy at the child can be the reason of the indiscipline connected with sluggishness. If you see an indisposition, fatigue, slackness of the child, see a doctor. Perhaps, the reason in avitaminosis. The doctor will examine the child and will advise how to restore his physical activity.
7. In what there was a reason of indiscipline of the child and in what form it would not be shown, try to pay to the kid more attention. Communicate with it on all available subjects. Let him since small years learn the standard standards of behavior, then it will not be difficult to accustom the child to discipline. It will absorb in itself(himself) discipline of behavior, just looking at the parents and communicating with people around.