When in family the news sounds that there will be a long-awaited and planned child soon, it at the same time pleases and frightens. Responsible people understand that to give rise and bring up the child is a hard work which demands daily efforts.
Instruction
1. It is better for future mom and dad to read the corresponding literature on education of children morally to be prepared for situations which can arise. Though some parents consider that no additional knowledge is necessary to them. Anyway, to achieve success in such difficult business as education of the personality, it is necessary to remember several simple rules.
2. The love has to be the cornerstone of any education. It is important to love the child and when he draws the first sun paints in an album and when draws dirty hands on the TV screen. To love – means to accept it what is. Especially as the child will be such what he is brought up by parents, and depends on them what behavior the kid will consider correct and what – inadmissible.
3. The following necessary factor is the patience. Mothers of two and more children have this skill down to a science. Who else, except the loving parent, will be able to answer several dozen a time in a row the same question: "Why?". And not simply: "Because". And telling and explaining to the kid everything at such level that he understood and remembered. It is necessary to stock up with patience when the child wants to help something about the house though at it and not at once everything will turn out. The patience is necessary when the child suits hysterics, especially in crowded places. Not to do without patience when the kid learns to read and write, especially when it has at all no desire to study. And though not at all parents this quality is present at the necessary quantity, children stimulate adults to study patience every day.
4. An important component of success in education of children is the refusal of comparisons. There is no sense to be upset that the neighbour's girl started walking earlier, and the niece of the girlfriend talks better. All children different. And for parents his child has to be the best always and in everything. You should not spend forces and emotions for comparisons, it is better to direct them towards the child, to pay him more attention. Support the child in all undertakings. It will be clear later to what your child is capable - to drawing, singing or sport.
5. The attention and time is what the child needs constantly. To spend on the kid it is as much as possible time, giving at the same time to it all the attention - it is guarantee of successful education. These simple investments will pay off the maximum result over time, and the child will grow up the full-fledged personality open for the world and the people surrounding it.